Sufferers – “You’ll make me sad if you don’t do this.”
This kind of phrase is a way to blackmail you. The person is trying to threaten you since he or she might know something that you would not want to be revealed. Your fears and phobias make you obedient and you usually do what the manipulator is asking you to do. Sufferers put responsibility for their happiness on you and you feel guilty if you do not do what is asked of you. This is how the sufferer controls you.